I LOVE Me Some Him!

God blessed me with an AMAZING gift. His name is Timothy Isaac Lewis Huff. Or, as I affectionately call him, “Sir Isaac.” My son, who turns 7 years old next month, is such a compassionate, thoughtful, loving, scholarly, creative and talented young man. He is full of life. He is an people magnet (everyone gravitates toward him the minute the enters a room). He is my twin. Sometimes, I just stare at him as he sleeps tightly wrapped up in his Spider-Man blanket. And, I think to myself, “Wow…. this little angel is mine!”

Sir Isaac is such an entertainer. The late and great Michael Jackson is his favorite artist. And, when Mj’s music starts blaring from the radio speakers…. watch out! You’re sure to see some fancy footwork from “The Prince of Dance.” LOL…. I love it! I have him on video showcasing his skills.

My son is very in tune with his feelings and that of others. The caring-natured person that he is, Sir Isaac will comfort you and remind you that “everything is going to be all right.” There have been times that I felt sad, but not for long, because my son would come to me, rub my back and tell me that he loves me and not to worry. How could I stay sad after that?!

When I look at my son Sir Isaac, I see so much and I know that he can be so much in life. I published a children's book in honor of my son entitled, "When I Look at You." It reads, "When I look at you, there is so much I see…. Like a judge who rules in the name of justice and equality. An eye doctor who helps people to see better. A meteorologist who tells people about the weather…."

My son wakes up EARLY. If I’m sleep, Sir Isaac wakes me up as well. I don’t mind because his greeting is so sweet: “Good Morning Mommy!” I quickly reply, “Good Morning Son!” Then, I grab him, hug him tight and give him lots of kisses. This causes him to smile. Oh, and what a smile he has. He gets his warming smile honestly!

Sir Isaac is a willing helper around the house. He helps to wash the dishes, sweep the floor, take out the garbage, clean the mirrors and iron his clothes. He is very independent in this way. It let’s me know that he’s going to do fine in life. That’s because he takes initiative. Being a go-getter is the name of the game and I am confident that my son will have his game ON LOCK!

I can go on and on about how I feel about my son. But to sum it all up, I proudly declare, “I LOVE me some him!”

Moms (and dads!)…. please show love to and thanksgiving for your sons. Brag about them. Celebrate them. Let them know they matter immensely. By doing so, you are empowering and building up a future leader and world changer. I’m doing that NOW with Sir Isaac!

Until I write you next…. I’m just living the solo mommy life.

Love ya!

Feona Sharhran Huff
Founder & CEO
Solo Mommy Magazine
http://livingthesolomommylife.blogspot.com/

I’m Moving Forward!

It didn’t hit me until just now – as I was reviewing the creative “farewell” posters that my summer camp students made for me (on the sneak tip) – that I am officially a full-time entrepreneur. I shed some tears, too. It wasn’t out of sadness but rather joy.

In the year’s time that I worked as my employer’s program coordinator for the after school and camp director for the summer camp, I know I have made a tremendous difference and had an impact on the lives of the elementary and middle school students I served.

I’ve seen academic and social growth. I’ve seen a change in behavior. I’ve seen the students take responsibility for their lives. Students, who in the beginning were not focusing on their work, became my prized “scholars.” These same students went from dodging their work to requesting to sit beside me so that they could get their work done. My students would literally play tug-of-war with my arms because everyone wanted to be Ms. Huff’s partner when I came to pick them up from school to attend the after-school program. They’d surprise me with colorful and detailed drawings of me with pigtails! They’ve hugged me long and hard when they come into my classroom and when they see me on the streets of Brooklyn.

I feel good deep down in my soul because I know I have done right by my students. However, it is simply time to step into my season,. I miss “my babies” already but I know that I have to
do this. Oh yes, I’m going to see ALL my students again. It will just be in a different capacity the next time.

I am excited for me. I am confidant in myself and in the gifts, talents and personality that God has given me. Therefore, I am not afraid of what the immediate or far future holds. 2 Timothy 1:7 in The Holy Bible says, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

I encourage all my single mom sisters to embrace your “season”
and know that it is okay to move forward in faith, integrity, hope and tenacity. You have everything that you need to succeed within you. Believe that truth. I do. That’s exactly why I am moving forward. On my MARK... Get SET…. Go Feona... GO!!!!!!

Until the next time I write you... I'm just living the solo mommy life.

Love you!

Feona Sharhran Huff
Founder & CEO
Solo Mommy Magazine
http://livingthesolomommylife.blogspot.com/

The Park, a Racket and Me -- What an Energizing Workout!

After looking at my lavendar and pink Wilson's racket nestled in the corner of my living room for close to a month, I finally decided to make good use of it. So, I arose early this morning, packed my camaflauge pouch and hit the handball court for some a workout.

It felt good running back and forth hitting (and many times missing!) my pink tennis ball. That's right, I said "pink." Hey, I can look cute while I work out, right?! LOL

I felt so alive during the course of my hour-long workout. My mind was free to wonder. I even came up with ideas to work on in the immediate future. I have decided to play racket ball every morning as it was beneficial physically and mentally.

I encourage you to utilize your local park to exercise as well. Take the kids and work out together. Link up with your girlfriends and play one-on-one tennis or talk "girl talk" while power walking around the track. Shoot a few basketball hoops -- or at least attempt to throw the ball near the rim. It's all in fun. After all, that's what a workout should be. Just take a try and you'll see what I mean. I promise you won't be disappointed.

Until the next time I write you…. I’m just living the solo mommy life.

Love ya!

Feona Sharhran Huff
Founder & CEO
Solo Mommy Magazine
“Empowering you with savvier ways to live a simpler life”
http://livingthesolomommylife.blogspot.com